In our last worship dance group meet up we explored how God is creative and he created us to create to reveal his glory. We did some choreograph and learned a little about tools for making our own. Here is some of what we discusses.

Revealing His Glory

Our God is a creative God and we are created in his image to also be creators. Throughout scripture God has used different art forms to convey his Glory. From the beauty of nature and our surroundings to the use of poetry and metaphors in the Bible. He has captivated us. He also uses others and given them a spirit to create with wisdom and knowledge to reveal his glory. 

Psalm 19:1-6

¹ The heavens declare the glory of God,
and the sky above proclaims his handiwork.
² Day to day pours out speech,
and night to night reveals knowledge.
³ There is no speech, nor are there words,
whose voice is not heard.
⁴ Their voice goes out through all the earth,
and their words to the end of the world.
In them he has set a tent for the sun,
⁵ which comes out like a bridegroom leaving his chamber,
and, like a strong man, runs its course with joy.
⁶ Its rising is from the end of the heavens,
and its circuit to the end of them,
and there is nothing hidden from its heat.

• Through art God reveals himself and speaks to our soul. 

Exodus 31:3-5

³ and I have filled him with the Spirit of God, with ability and intelligence, with knowledge and all craftsmanship, ⁴ to devise artistic designs, to work in gold, silver, and bronze, ⁵ in cutting stones for setting, and in carving wood, to work in every craft.

• God gives others the ability and knowledge to design to reveal his Glory. 

Isaiah 43:7 

Everyone who is called by my name, whom I created for my glory, whom I formed and made.”

• We were created by God for his glory. 

Ephesians 2:10 

For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand, that we should walk in them.

This is the song we are dancing to. It always reminds me of Jeremiah 31:13

Then shall the young women rejoice in the dance,and the young men and the old shall be merry. I will turn their mourning into joy; I will comfort them, and give them gladness for sorrow.

Here is another song we can dance to with the same beat.

Have you ever dreamt of gliding effortlessly across a ballroom floor, each step narrating a unique story? If so, you’re in good company. The dream of mastering ballroom dance can seem as distant as a star, but with S.M.A.R.T goals, you can transform that dream into a dazzling reality.

The Magic of S.M.A.R.T Goals

S.M.A.R.T stands for Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, and Time-bound. This approach provides a structured pathway from vague desires to tangible achievements in your dance journey.

Specificity Matters

Clarify your dance aspirations. Instead of a general goal like “being a better dancer,” specify “learn the basic steps of the waltz and perform at a local event.” This precision guides your practice and progress.

Measure Your Progress

Determine how to track your improvement. Consider the number of lessons per month or practice frequency. Celebrate milestones, such as mastering a new step or feeling more confident on the dance floor.

Achievability is Key

Set realistic dance goals based on your current skills and schedule. Aim high, but ensure your goals are attainable. Start with one lesson per week and gradually increase your commitment.

Relevance Keeps You Motivated

Align your dance goals with your broader life aspirations. If dancing brings joy and connects you with others, ensure your goals reflect these values to maintain motivation.

Time-bound Targets

Set a timeline for your goals. Maybe you want to perform at a showcase in six months or finish a dance course in three. Deadlines help maintain focus and drive.

Crafting Your S.M.A.R.T Dance Goals

Consider these examples:

1. Dance Skill Goal: “I will learn the basic steps of the waltz by attending one class per week for the next two months.” This goal is specific, measurable, achievable, relevant, and time-bound.
2. Performance Goal: “I will participate in a local dance event in three months, showcasing my skills in the tango.” This sets a clear target to strive for.

Setting S.M.A.R.T goals for your ballroom dance journey is a commitment to your passion for dance. It illuminates the path to becoming the graceful dancer you aspire to be.

Reflect and Step Forward

Which S.M.A.R.T goal for ballroom dance resonates with you today? Take a moment to reflect, jot it down, and step confidently onto the dance floor of opportunity. Embrace your journey with enthusiasm and purpose, for you have the potential to shine.

The waltz, a timeless and elegant dance, offers a delightful way to connect and have fun with your partner. Its graceful movements and enchanting rhythm create a magical atmosphere, making it an enjoyable activity for couples. Here are several reasons why waltzing is fun to do with your partner:

Connection and Bonding

Waltzing requires partners to work in harmony, fostering a deep sense of connection. As you glide across the dance floor, you must synchronize your movements, which encourages communication and trust. This shared experience can strengthen your bond and enhance your relationship.

Physical Activity and Health Benefits

Dancing the waltz is a fantastic way to stay active. It provides a low-impact cardiovascular workout that can improve your stamina, flexibility, and balance. Engaging in physical activity with your partner can also boost your mood and reduce stress, contributing to overall well-being.

Romantic and Elegant Atmosphere

The waltz is often associated with romance and sophistication. Its flowing movements and elegant turns create an intimate setting, perfect for spending quality time with your partner. Dancing to the waltz allows you to escape from the hustle and bustle of daily life and enjoy a moment of grace and elegance together.

Learning and Growing Together

Taking the time to learn the waltz as a couple can be a rewarding experience. It challenges you to step out of your comfort zone and develop new skills. As you progress, you’ll take pride in your achievements and enjoy the process of growing together. This shared journey can be both fun and fulfilling.

Social Opportunities

Waltzing opens up opportunities to attend social events, such as dance classes or ballroom nights. These occasions allow you to meet new people, make friends, and share your love for dancing with others. Participating in social dance events can be a wonderful way to enrich your social life and create lasting memories with your partner.

In conclusion, waltzing with your partner is not only a fun and enjoyable activity but also a meaningful way to connect, stay active, and create beautiful memories together. Whether you’re dancing in your living room or at a grand ballroom, the waltz offers a perfect blend of romance, elegance, and joy.

Dance Class & Events

Dancing with your partner is like a beautiful conversation between two souls, isn’t it? It’s a chance to express yourself in a way words sometimes can’t capture. But how do we connect better in this dance of life and love?

First, let’s think about the power of presence. When was the last time you truly immersed yourself in the moment, without distractions, just you and your partner? Being fully present is a gift we can give each other. It reminds me of the scripture that calls us to “be still” and know the essence of what truly matters. When you dance, let your heart be open and receptive, allowing you to feel every beat and every step together.

Communication is another key. How often do we assume our partner knows what we’re thinking or feeling? In dance, as in life, we must express our needs and listen with our whole heart. Consider this: what would happen if you approached each dance as a chance to learn something new about your partner? To ask, “How can I support you? How can I move with you more harmoniously?”

And then there’s trust. Trust that your partner will catch you, that they’ll be there when you take that leap. Reflect on the times you’ve leaned on faith, trusting in what’s unseen. In the dance, it’s about letting go of control and embracing the rhythm of togetherness. Can you recall a moment when trust transformed a difficult step into a graceful glide?

Finally, practice patience and grace. We all stumble and make mistakes. But isn’t it wonderful to know we can rise again, hand in hand? As we dance, let patience guide our steps, and grace smooth our paths. How can you extend kindness to your partner today, celebrating not just the perfect moments, but the imperfect ones too?

Remember, dancing with your partner is more than just movement—it’s a journey of connection, a dance of the heart. Embrace it with openness, faith, and love, and watch your connection blossom into something truly beautiful.

Have you ever caught yourself swaying to a tune, wishing you could share that rhythm with your special someone? You’re certainly not alone in this desire to connect with your spouse beyond the mundane. Dancing offers a beautiful path to such connection, providing an opportunity to move in harmony and deepen your bond.

When I first suggested dance lessons to my partner, I was nervous. Would they share my excitement? But then I recalled our moments of shared laughter and joy, and I took the plunge. The key is to approach the idea with openness and trust.

Have you shared with your spouse why dancing matters to you? Expressing your feelings can be a powerful way to connect. Explain how it’s a chance to spend quality time together, learn something new, and simply have fun. It’s not about mastering the steps but savoring the experience and joy of trying something new together.

Scripture beautifully highlights the joy of companionship and unity. Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 tells us that “two are better than one,” and dancing together embodies this spirit. It’s about working together, supporting one another, and creating something beautiful in tandem.

Invite your spouse to imagine the laughter, growth, and memories you’ll create. What’s the harm in trying just one class? You might even discover a new, wordless way to communicate, letting the music and movement speak for you.

So why not take that step? Invite your spouse with an open heart, and who knows? You might just find yourselves dancing through life together in more ways than one.

10 Steps to a Stronger Marriage

Building a stronger marriage is a journey that requires hope, dedication, and love. Whether you’re newlyweds or celebrating decades together, there’s always room to grow and deepen your connection. Let’s explore ten steps that can help you and your partner strengthen your bond.

1. Communicate Openly and Honestly
   Isn’t it amazing how a simple conversation can change everything? Open and honest communication is the foundation of any strong relationship. Share your thoughts, dreams, and concerns with each other. Remember, listening is just as important as speaking. How can we truly understand one another if we don’t take the time to listen?
2. Prioritize Time Together
   Life gets busy, doesn’t it? But amidst the chaos, it’s crucial to make time for each other. Schedule regular date nights or enjoy a quiet evening at home. Do you remember the joy of simply being in each other’s presence? Those moments are precious.
3. Practice Forgiveness
   We all make mistakes. Embrace forgiveness, and let go of grudges. Holding onto past hurts only weighs us down. As the Bible teaches, “Bear with each other and forgive one another” (Colossians 3:13). How much lighter would our hearts be if we practiced forgiveness daily?
4. Show Appreciation and Gratitude
   When was the last time you thanked your partner for the little things they do? Expressing gratitude strengthens the bond you share. A simple “thank you” can go a long way in making your partner feel valued and loved.
5. Share Faith and Spirituality
   Isn’t it comforting to know you’re not alone on this journey? Sharing your faith can bring you closer together and provide strength in challenging times. Attend services together, pray as a couple, or simply discuss your beliefs. Allow faith to be a guiding light in your marriage.
6. Support Each Other’s Goals and Dreams
   Do you cheer each other on? Supporting your partner’s dreams fosters a sense of teamwork and unity. Celebrate their successes and stand by them during setbacks. You’re in this together, building a life hand-in-hand.
7. Keep the Romance Alive
   Remember the thrill of your early days together? Keep that spark alive by surprising each other with thoughtful gestures or planning romantic getaways. Love is a choice we make every day—how will you choose to show it?
8. Seek Help When Needed
   It’s okay to ask for help. Whether it’s through counseling, seeking advice from trusted friends, or turning to scripture for guidance, reaching out can provide new perspectives and solutions. Why struggle alone when support is available?
9. Embrace Change and Growth
   Life is ever-changing, and so are we. Embrace the growth that comes with life’s experiences. How can we grow together if we remain stagnant? Be open to change, and allow it to strengthen your bond.
10. Commit to Love Unconditionally
    At the heart of it all is love. Love is patient and kind (1 Corinthians 13:4). Commit to loving your partner unconditionally, through the ups and downs. Isn’t it beautiful to know that love endures all things?

Your marriage is a unique and beautiful journey. By taking these steps, you’re nurturing a partnership built on love, faith, and mutual respect. Remember, you’re not alone on this path—support and hope are always within reach.

This week in our Follow the Leader Class we discussed how dancing with our spouse can be a form of praise to God. One thing that was of particular interest was Ecclesiastes 3:4 It reads there is a time to weep and a time to laugh, a time to mourn and a time to dance. Is it not amazing that the opposite of mourning is not Joy, but dancing? It makes me think of the song Amazing Grace. I once was lost, but now I am found. Blind, but now I see. To me dance is the ultimate expression of Joy for what God has done for me and it is even more amazing that he has given me a spouse I can share this with.

Let Them Praise His Name with Dancing 

Psalm 149:3 New International Version (NIV) 

³Let them praise his name with dancing 
    and make music to him with timbrel and harp. 

Jeremiah 31:13 New International Version (NIV) 

¹³Then young women will dance and be glad, 
    young men and old as well. 
I will turn their mourning into gladness; 
    I will give them comfort and joy instead of sorrow. 

Group Questions? 

Have you ever thought of dancing as a form of praise to God?  If you have, what do you think constitute praise verses just dancing?   

In some congregations dancing is forbidden.  Why do you think this is?   

What are some ways you could use your new dancing skills to honor and praise God.  

Homework 

Look up verses  

• Hebrews 12:28 

• John 4:23-24 
• Psalm 30:11 
• Ecclesiastes 3:4